There are days when you’ve convinced yourself that you’re all right. And then, you suddenly find yourself listening to sad songs all over again. You’ve listen enough that all of your memories together crawls back into your mind. It is some kind of torture, but, you just can’t stop thinking about it. The relationship was definitely over. You were over him. But there are days when you found yourself being morose again over what had happened. Should you have laughed more? Should you have kissed him more? You might probably find yourself wondering over these things. It is inevitable. You just can’t help it, really. But, there is one thing which you should always remember–it was over and you should never get back with your ex ever again, no matter what. The reason is infinite, but here’s some:
1. You’ve fight enough for the relationship, but did he?
Remember when you are crying late at night. And you can’t figure out if you are going to call him and talk to him about what had happened or just wait for him to realized that it shouldn’t end up like that. And, still, you’ve waited for him. Maybe, he would come and knock on your door. But it seems like you are the only one wanting to fix the relationship. You are more than willing to forget what had happened and start over again. But you are the only one fighting. You are tired and hurtful, and just like that, he left you.
2. You almost forgot that you’re worth more than anything.
You might tried chasing him because at some point, you’ve probably think that he matters more than your ego. You’ve probably killed all your ego just to have him again. Little did you realize that you are worthy, too. You keep on chasing a man who didn’t even realized your worth. You deserve better. You deserve someone who wouldn’t make you feel that you are so hard to love. You deserve to be loved without the need to ask. Nobody should ask for love to begin with.
3. He left you, let him go.
You might be wondering what your life would be like, now that he is out of your life. He’s been with you for so long and it might seem so frightening to be alone. He used to be your partner in life in almost everything. But now, he is gone. He’s just a mere stranger in your life. But the thing is, you will be okay. Remember that you are doing just fine exactly just the way you are before he came into your life. Have the courage to let him go if he wants to.
4. Being alone is the best time to focus on who you are and what you really want to be.
Now that you are alone, try to focus on things that really matter to you. Do and try the things which you’ve been planning to do. Focus on improving yourself. You are capable of doing extraordinary things indeed. Pursue your goal as an individual. Above all, do all these things for yourself. Keep doing you.
5. There’s someone better for you.
It is quite likely that you might want to consider getting back with him. Some people might want to stick with something that is too familiar. No one is blaming you particularly if you’ve already plan your future with him. If you are wondering if you’ll ever find someone who will love you more than your ex, remember that there is. Never be afraid to take chances and meet people. You’ll meet the one that is for you, soon. It will take some time and a lot of courage to take risk. But finding that one that is just right for you will always be worth it.
Breakup hurts more than you could have ever imagine. Cry out because you have all the right to. Let all the pain and toxic things in your heart go. Having your heart on your sleeve didn’t make you weak. Things happened. Life is difficult. Falling in love is easy, staying with someone is hard. Relationship needs two people who are willing to make the struggle easy and worth it. You just have to find the right person, he/she is just out there.