Thanks again, Science.

There is actually a drill on that. Let’s make it easy with a little help from science. Here are science-backed ways to get someone fall in love with you.

1. Keep it warm.

A study conducted by Yale Psychologist, John Bargh, revealed an underlying connection between body temperature and personality. He confirmed that we tend to behave more warmly towards others when we feel warm physically. So, next time you are planning to go out for a date, make sure to go in warm places and and foods. Ask him or her to have a coffee, you’ll never know, this might help heat things up later between the two of you.

2.  Make a sweet smile.

Attracting someone is as easy as smiling. According to a 2014 study about happiness and attractiveness, the attractiveness of a person increased depending on how intense of a smile they had. Just keep on smiling, he or she might can’t help fall in love with that smile.

3. Listen closely.

This may seem easy, but it has a great impact in every relationship whether it’s the beginning, honeymoon phase, or when conflict arise. A 2010 study revealed that, those who were able to discuss issues calmly and listen to their partner when having an argument were less likely to separate compare to couples who didn’t listen enough to their partner. Also, another study by M. Gary Neuman, said that listening plays a major role to make someone fall in love with you as we have a need to be heard.

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Hints from Psychology.

If you are hoping to finally be with someone, to start a possible spark with someone, perhaps, to give yourself infinite chance in love if you still haven’t find the one yet, we’ve got you covered. These are one of the few tips from Business Insider to help you with.

1. Be Open

Revealing a part of you to someone else might be easier said than done. But, this might actually help you to be closer to the person you want to have a chance with. A study conducted by Harvard Business School researchers, found that 79% of participants preferred to date a “revealer” or someone willing to share even the most embarrassing moment of their life, compared to “hiders,” who keeps information to themselves.

2. Say ‘Thank you’

Saying ‘thank you’ is a simple act yet it builds a great start. A 2010 study found that people who give thanks to every kind act done by their partner also reported a feeling of deeper connection to him or her. The feeling of being grateful, is in fact, even more important than saying the words itself.

3. Make eye contact.

Staring contest could actually win his or her over. Eye contact can actually lead to intimate relationship according to social psychologist Zick Rubin. Rubin studied 158 college-aged couples back in 1970, and found out that the more eye contact they made, the stronger their bond. Other studies confirmed that even among strangers, staring into each other could increase the feelings of intimacy.

You can never go wrong with these science-backed ways to get someone fall in love with you. Probably not in an instant. But just to help you get started.

 

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